I’ve recently been discussing my friend’s upbeat mood and outlook in the face of recent adversity. One of the nice things about our friendship is that while we can be apart on how we philosophize about the world as it is, and as it may be, we still get along famously. (At least, I believe we get along famously, he’s always welcome to disagree.)
“At times of great trouble or disaster, one word will suffice. At times of happiness, too, one word will be enough. And when meeting or talking with others, one word will do. One should think well and then speak. This is clear and firm, and one should learn it with no doubts. It is a matter of putting forth one’s whole effort and having the correct attitude previously. This is very difficult to explain but is something that everyone should work on in his heart. If a person has not learned this in his heart, it is not likely that he will understand it.”
I've been reading "Advice from a spiritual friend", which was lent to me several years ago by a good friend. I'm disappointed that I hadn't picked it up until now, but positive about what I can learn from it. I'm determined to make changes in my life, and hope that those changes positively affect those around me.